I have been busy this past week, breakfast and dinner meetings and much running about.  I have neglected my family.  I have neglected ringing my friend F to thank her for dinner last Tuesday and tell her I had a nightmare about her fridge.  I am haunted by its order and cleanliness. And I have neglected my blog.  So, this evening, instead of doing anything useful (um, arguably, the blog is not useful), I allowed my poor husband to labour into the night on the computer and watched some television instead. I got sucked into the vortex of “The Day after Tomorrowâ€. May I make a recommendation? Save yourselves; it’s very dull and cold in the eye of the storm but somehow compelling. I’m easily compelled.  I’m off to bed with a hot water bottle.
Almost touched by greatness
Yesterday, the Princess and I went to see Ratatouille. Paris looked delightful and I said to her that we might go there together one day. She seemed unmoved by the proffered treat but I was misty eyed at the thought of mother-daughter bonding. Maybe she was dubious about hygiene standards in the kitchens there.
Today, at lunch time, I sneaked off to a short film about Rubens in the gallery. On my way in I noticed a small fat man kissing the hand of a tall blond woman. She looked mildly familiar. Once I got in, there was a speech welcoming Princess Mathilde (aha, that’s who she was, future queen of Belgium, assuming that there is a Belgium to be queen of) who, in many ways, sounded like the rest of the working mother brigade as the speaker referred to her younger son who was 2 today and her older son who was laid up with measles.
The film reminded me that when my daughter and I have our trip to Paris, we must see the Marie de Medici cycle in the Louvre. I really recommend clicking on the link, Marie de Medici had a busy life and capturing it in pictorial form required all of the painter’s genius.
I passed Mathilde again on the way out having her hand kissed by some other fat man and chatting amiably to the event organiser but it was all very peaceful. Given that Mathilde is Belgium’s answer to Princess Diana (except that she appears to be smarter, saner and somewhat plainer) I was expecting slightly more of a throng than two but apparently not.
Actually, little pitchers do have large ears
Me: So, look, when the Grinch [seasonal] is saying something loudly it’s written in capital letters. Can you read those letters?
Her: N-O-T
Me: And that spells nnnn…
Her: Can you please just read the story?
Me: Nnnnooottt.
Her: Look, I know that if I were in school in Ireland I would be learning to read and write now but I’m not in Ireland I’m in Belgium and can you just read the story?
Me (much chastened): OK.
In an effort to ensure that I will have less time to stoke my daughter’s paranoia, I have signed up to NaBloPoMo. You should too. You know you are strangely fascinated by the idea.
The feast of the French community of Belgium
The 27th of September is a busy day for my family. The boys were 2 yesterday and it was my parents’ 40th wedding anniversary. If I weren’t sick as a dog, I would compose eloquent posts on both these topics but it will just have to wait while I go back to bed and keep coughing.
A weekend filled with incident and adventure
On Saturday morning the boys and I went to the supermarket leaving the Princess and her father to be sick together. On our return, the Princess had, miraculously, completely recovered and her father was sick as a dog.
The children and I took ourselves off to the Brocante, you know, the Belgian experience where they close off the streets, add some chip vans and neighbours sell unwanted clutter to each other. It is surprisingly appealing. The afternoon took us off to a birthday party where the anglophone world was represented by a New Yorker, an English speaking Quebecer, an English woman and, my favourite, her half Irish (Kerry), half Spanish husband. Their little girl looked entirely Irish/English, definitely a pale Northern European and their little boy was entirely Spanish. By the end of the party, Mr. Waffle had stopped vomiting and was in a position to come and collect us. Good news as our paediatrician would say.
By Sunday, my loving husband was largely recovered. We took ourselves off to enjoy car free day. My colleagues were saying today – where did all the children come from at the weekend and I felt like replying, they were all mine. There were no cars anywhere in Brussels, all 19 communes. I insisted on taking the children out so that they could scoot and pedal up and down the road. This turned out to be a bit of a disaster as the boys soon lost interest in pedaling and began to try to throw themselves under the odd passing taxi. Undaunted, we took the tram into Place Royal where there were bouncy castles and farm animals and all manner of excitements. Sometimes I think my standards for high entertainment have really plummeted over the years. It was good, though. I was also allowed my obligatory moment’s smugness when I read in the paper that in Dublin they closed exactly two streets to cars. A token gesture, surely even they must feel. All over Brussels in odd corners there were neighbours who had hauled out tables and chairs to have lunch together in the middle of the street. It was lovely. Over on Bxlblog, they’re saying they should do it once a month, wouldn’t that be fabulous?
And then, in the afternoon we went to the “Fair of Gascon produce” in the Sablon. They went the whole hog and decorated the Sablon to look like a French village square. They also supplied a small free merry-go-round. This was, frankly, disastrous as the two men drinking wine and pressing the buttons were indifferent to order and the rule of the jungle prevailed in getting your children onto their preferred or any ride. We retired early with only minor injuries and took home some foie gras and cassoulet to nurse us back to health.
Weekend reading round-up
From the Observer magazine:
“…a plethora of other 12-step programmes, including Clutterers Anonymous and Obsessive Compulsive Anonymous – two meetings you hope don’t ever get mixed up or invited over to each other’s houses.”
From the Irish Times birth announcements (fadas omitted apologies to purists):
Cuireann Seamus agus Rhonda an-fhailte roimh Aengus Seosamh Alan, A rugadh i Melbourne, An Astrail ar an 18u Mean Fomhair, 2007. Dearthair le h-aghaidh Annabelle agus Charlotte.
Seamus and Rhonda are delighted to announce the safe arrival of Aengus Seosamh Alan on September 18, 2007…a brother for Annabelle and Charlotte.
Buiochas le Dia”
Does anyone else feel that Annabelle and Charlotte were named at a time when the family felt less enthusiasm for the Irish language?
Betjeman at bedtime, surprisingly pleasant.