On two occasions recently while Mr. Waffle and I have been putting the boys to bed, the Princess has tidied up.  Not just her mess but the mess in general. Without being asked at all. And she knows exactly where everything goes. Imagine coming back from bathing and saying good night to the boys and finding that instead of having to get down on hands and knees and put everything away, it’s all been done.  How fabulous and how kind. “Thank you, thank you†we said.  “Yes, amn’t I good†she said bursting with pride “and I’m so good, you don’t even have to say thank you to me!â€